I reblogged this last month, tagged it, and said “might as well see if it works.” I used this video as a reference to find all the forms that i needed (which is A LOT, especially if you’re a dependent) and sent them through the mail, not really allowing myself to hope.
dude.
$2,714 of medical debt from my top surgery - gone. im shaking this was such a weight on me for 2 years and it fucking worked. what the fuck.
you know what? fuck you. *unionizes your salt*
hmm. well this was supposed to say uniodizes but i guess im a champion of the salt working class now
There is no form of hating fat people - including concern trolling or hating fat acceptance - that doesn’t amount to you saying, “Uh, excuse me, what made you think you could go around having a body without justifying it to me?”
When you talk about “fat” diseases - you’re saying: “uh, that body better be perfectly healthy in all instances forever before I give you my approval.”
When you talk about “it’s just not attractive” - you’re saying: “I think I made it clear that if your body isn’t pleasing to me, I’m not signing off on it.”
When you talk about “just eat less and exercise more” - you’re saying: “who gave you permission to live your life as you see fit instead of how I see fit?”
So let me just be clear: all anti-fat arguments are always and completely invalid because fat people will never owe you an explanation or justification for their bodies, their health, or their lives.
Fat acceptance is simply the assertion of a right fat people have always had, and one it’s long past time others started accepting.
Luigi fans who hate Mario are insane because if you ever told Luigi you hate Mario he would start crying and then put his dukes up while still crying
If you told Mario you hate Luigi he would also put his dukes up, he wouldn’t cry though he’d make that pissed off Mario face
God invented winter so girls could exchange body heat
Mushrooms made an arrangement with God to do what he was unwilling to accept responsibility for and this promise made Lucifer so angry he abandoned his throne in jealousy.
Spring happened all on its own, as the world became curious and reached for the sun.
Just had the absolute worst ever shift at work I think I deserve 1 billion dollars in compensation
Nevermind my day has been fixed
The reviews are in
I need you all to know that he was stanced exactly like in the first pic for like a solid 10 seconds waiting for me as I walked up the driveway and did not start walking towards me to collect his pets until I crouched down
Also
Tummy
anime girl who is a ghost or death god or some shit who haunts some poor innocent guy and constantly teases him with massive knockers she gains when in the spirit world
absolutely existing animes
rain code is so good you guys
I’ve identified as a man for about 2 or so years and trans for about 5 or so years (previously non-binary for about 3 years while I figured things out). Recently YouTube has been pushing a lot of “I regret transitioning and so will you” and “you’ll regret top surgery” etc. videos to me. While I believed I was pretty stable in my identity, I’m starting to doubt if I’m really trans or if the “gender critical” people are right. I’m currently in the process of getting on T and the idea that I’ll regret it in the future is horrifying, any tips?
Hello there, that’s why those types of videos and posts are worded so aggressively- starting their phrasing with “you will” makes you feel a sense of urgency and like you have to take what they say word for word as a fact, as they used “will” and not “may”. They are using this verbiage to strike fear and confusion into the hearts of those that see it, not to genuinely try to inform people of a potential mistake they’re making. if these videos were framed from a point of concern, they would be titled something like “I regret top surgery, and you might too, here’s why” Or something gentle like that. This is 100% for shock value and clickbait. Please keep in mind that everything on YouTube is titled in a shocking and aggressive fashion to try to get you to click.
Those people are more than likely terfs. The fact of the matter is that person regretted top surgery, but they can’t speak for every single person who has ever gotten it or has ever wanted to. having the nerve to try to speak for every single person because they experience regret doesn’t make them right, it makes them an asshole. their experience does not line up with what the vast majority of people who undergo these surgeries, and while it is important to hear from people who regret these decisions, using aggressive verbiage to strike fear into people’s hearts is not the way to go about it. That is an attempt to brainwash
I would say every time you encounter something like that, head to a community like tumblr and browse the top surgery tags and hear from other people who have undergone it. Just because one person feels regret and wants to make other people feel bad for not feeling the same way as them doesn’t make them right, it makes them aggressive and hostile.
They are not the protagonist of the post-top surgery community. They do not have the right to dictate how you will feel after surgery. They don’t know you. They can’t tell you how you will feel through a YouTube video. They are just trying to scare you.
Disregard things like this, they are literally designed to scare you and make you doubt yourself. Whenever you come across things like this, look to other people who have undergone surgery and listen to their stories. See the happy tears in their eyes and listen to the stories of how gender affirming surgeries save lives.
Even if you end up regretting top surgery for whatever reason, it doesn’t make you wrong, stupid or bad. You’re allowed to make mistakes and be wrong. Every single person on this planet is allowed to make mistakes. It’s how we learn. You’re allowed to do what you believe is right for yourself in this moment even if you regret it down the line- not a single person on this earth can predict regret, it’s a feeling that comes after, not before. Don’t let the thought of potential regret hold you back if someone else is telling you you’ll regret it. Only listen if that feeling is coming from your own gut first and you have good reason.
Hope that helps. Fuck people who word things like that. It’s not worth your time and energy, take care of yourself. You are the one who gets to decide what you feel. Someone else telling you how you will feel will color your perspective and make you see things differently than you would have otherwise. Focus on how you genuinely feel, not what total strangers have to say about someone they don’t know just because they want YouTube clicks and ad revenue. They have a massive ulterior motive, and it is not benefiting you or any other viewer. Their motive is profit (and spreading their own anecdotal experience as factual truth). - K


























